5 Reasons Why People Fail to Achieve Success
The #1 reason people fail to achieve success and abundance is they have too much pain linked to having, achieving or maintaining it. Somewhere in the mind, possibly even hidden deep in the sub-conscious there is this powerful negative association lurking.
These negative associations manifest themselves in various conscious and subconscious ways, including: self-sabotage, approach avoidance, fear, anxiety, or general disinterest towards wealth, success, and achievement.
A person may not even be aware they are suffering with such an affliction. They often never get clear with their heart about what they really, really want, let alone begin to germinate their intentions.
If you don’t address these issues they will dog you every step of the way throughout your life as you wonder why you feel less than abundant, less than happy, less than fulfilled. This “comfort zone” though designed to protect you may be setting your success level thermostatically far below what you really want in life. If you knew how limiting your comfort zone can be you probably wouldn’t refer to it as comfortable at all. This seems ironic yet it is the way your brain functions.
The only way to effectively overcome this obstacle if you suffer from it is to reset your inner success thermostat for success and abundance.
A good MLM company, system, or sponsor will be of supreme benefit here. You must reset and re-train your brain if it is a limiting factor to your success. Get yourself to the mental gym, hire a competent trainer, and get to work. The only thing you have to loose is the abundant success you desire if you don’t.
The Compelling Reason Why isn’t there. A compelling reason why is both the heart and the heartbeat that sends blood and oxygen rushing to every essential success muscle in your body. It’s the fire that burns within.
Without this blood flow your success will atrophy and die! Without this fire within you’ll freeze to death on the icy plains before ever reaching the Promised Land.
You must find this reason within yourself, and become willing to pursue it with unbending intent as your inner guidance leads you. This is what the powerful “Finding Your Compelling Reason Why” exercise is designed to do.
The #3 reason people fail to reach an abundance of MLM success and wealth is they have no definite plan or proven strategy for achieving it.
The success equation is missing entirely or at least in part in their plans. Not having a formula, system, or effective plan to follow is the equivalent to going nowhere fast! If you are happy going nowhere, that’s fine. But if you are simply unwilling to invest in yourself, and your business, and go to the necessary lengths, don’t kid yourself. Your success is simply not important enough for you to make any significant lasting headway. Until it becomes important enough, you will continue down the same road, achieving the same similar results as you are accustomed to.
The #4 reason people fail at success and abundance in MLM and in Life is that they don’t follow through by taking the right kind of consistent daily actions.
Momentum never gets established. Daily, focused, and intelligently directed right action is required. Even baby steps in the right direction established as a daily discipline accomplish a great deal more over a period of time than short un-sustained bursts of achievement.
Short un-sustained bursts are a “rabbit-habit” but not a success habit. The combined synergistic effects of these baby steps far outweigh the effects of more infrequent bursts of intense effort and energy. Even small consistent baby steps are building the habits necessary overall to succeed. Once again the tortoise beats the hare
The #5 reason why people fail to achieve great wealth and success is that they let setbacks along the way derail the process. They are the MLM whiners who after 90days in the business are ready to drop out because they experienced some adversity on the roadway toward success.
They turn setbacks into crisis and often allow these to become devastation. Financial or life setbacks and crises must be turned into opportunities for growth. They must be weathered. There is a way to do this, but it requires faith and a positive mental attitude.
You must learn the lesson that life is presenting to you, and you will grow. You must realize you are on the right path.
You must learn to treat all failures as educational opportunities, and learn to discern the messages and meanings in each episode.
Turning your back doesn’t help. It simply won’t fix it. Try not to take mistakes and hard knocks too personally. Accept the fact that these learning opportunities will come, and develop the attitude necessary to prosper when they do.
Believe me when I tell you that success is built upon a thousand foolish blunders; failures turned into experience, fortitude, and know-how.
It seems ironic that the most successful people have also made the most mistakes – so why should you be thinking any different- like you’re entitled to special circumstances or something? Once again I’m not trying to freak you out… I’m just trying to inoculate you a little so when the inevitable setbacks come you’re not alarmed or taken out of the game entirely. You see the key is to learn from each blunder and grow in wisdom, independence, and experience. Realize it is another benchmark, a milestone along the road to success.
Learn not to be afraid to stumble, blunder and do it again if necessary to gain another priceless lesson. It is sometimes necessary to realize mistakes, hardships, and failures are a part of the process – not the end. Instead of whining, instead gain the mindset and fortitude of a true entrepreneur. Count yourself wise to accept this philosophy as it pertains to your own journey toward successful entrepreneurship, wealth and abundance.
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